obstacles

obstacles- their everywhere. No matter where you look, no matter how hard you try to avoid them, they find you. Most people have no idea how to handle these obstacles. So what do they do instead? They cover them up and pretend that they don't exist. But they do exist. They exist everyday. Life is hard, that's no secret. But just because things don't seem perfect doesn't mean that they aren't perfect for you. Everyone's "perfect" is different than the others. Girls need to stop depending on guys to make them happy, cause in reality those girls aren't happy... they pretend and the act like their obstacles and heartaches don't exist. And in on this depending on guys and always with a different one to make themselves feel better, what their really doing is not only hurting themselves but the ones around them as well. I have lost too many friends due to this problem. Why would a girl allow a male- whom may or may not even be around for the rest of your life, consume your life and tear apart your precious friendships? Cause i can tell you one thing- those "boys" are most likely not going to stick around. Their going to find someone else thats younger, smarter, hotter, prettier, funnier, etc than you and leave you crying without any friends because you cared more about this "boy" than the people who actually cared about you. So instead of feeling sorry for yourself and having no self worth or self esteem, put your big girl panties on and live your life. Follow the path that God has paved for you any everything else will fall into place. Stop trying to rush fate. It will happen in it's own time. For now, just sit back and enjoy this beautiful thing they call LIFE :)